when you loose someone whom you really love to search their way in life or happiness, you kind of feel like its the most painful thing ever. the worst is knowing that you are not enough to make this love happy. you can't love the way they want to be loved and i think knowing that they can't make you happy is less worst. at least all you had to do was lower your expectations. there was something that you could do, but to know you cant make someone happy or love them the way they want to be loved is pain. people say that there is no way you would not fall in love all over again. i agree. there is no way that you could possibly only fall in love with one person in your whole life time knowing that there is not another one that you could possibly fall in love with and have that love returned to you. there will always be another someone. always. its come to a point where i really feel that love isn't just an emotion or feeling anymore, its completely beyond that and its really a choice after a certain transition. sometimes the one whom you love the most isn’t the one you will be spending the rest of you life with. choice. people choose the best for themselves. people always do... even in the most immersed heartfelt love between 2 people. everything is transitory. even love. its extremely tragic